So I’m determined to help my SO orgasm! We are both in our late 30’s and she’s only ever had 5 orgasms. And not with me. She did warn me of this prior to ever being sexual with together. When giving her oral she’s physically pushed me away several times! Talking later about it she said it felt like she was going to pee. I understand that is a sign of getting ready to squirt and I think she does too. I’d really like to help her be more comfortable with her orgasm if she is a squirter(I thinks it’s super hot personally) I’d seriously love to help her be more orgasmic! So looking for any ideas and/or recommendations.

She doesn’t masturbate and and isn’t exactly comfortable with with toys yet. But I do feel like when she is more comfortable, it could be helpful and fun to help her get there! Plus I’m sure I could feel pleasant for me in the process. Any recommendations for this? Been looking at wand and things like we vibe satisfyer pro, we vibe 4 chorus, magic wand…

I/we would love to hear experiences and recommendations for the above!