Hello beautiful people,

I wanted to hear ideas/options/experiences from this wonderful community.

My wife (38F) and I (35M) are having a date night, first time in a long, long time. After kids and living far from any family support we have decided to make some time for ourselves.

I really wanted to open a discussion on our sex lives, sexual desires, intimacy, basically anything to do with that side of things. On a normal day we are normally so exhausted after work/kids/general life that we don't leave time for ourselves.

Do you have any fun conversation starters? Fun games? Specific questions that I can add to my arsenal for tonight? I want to mood to be relaxed and fun, but to start an ongoing and open discussion that ultimately leads to us both learning something about each other.

(My wife, although open, does seem to find it difficult at times to express herself sexually or talk freely)