I wouldn't say it a sexless marriage but it's heading down that route, I've everything I can to keep the spark alive, keep myself looking I'm shape and attractive but all I get is I'm tired, not tonight I'm nit in the mood. I get it sometimes she's not feeling it, but it's dropping down to once a month and I get moaned at if I drag it out. I sent her a naughty picture the other day well a couple after I had been to the gym .. no reply, didn't say anything when she got home, but had sewn them because sh replied to the message under it. It makes me feel so unattractive and down.. I do everything I can around the house so she has plenty of her time, but we go up to bed and she's nearly asleep by the time I've brushed my teeth... maybe I'm just being a that and just need tomget over it, but we had such a great sex life and it's just going down the drain... I'm 36 for god sakes, how can I do this for the rest of my life 😫..

The only time we really have sex is if she's had a couple of wines, I've tried everything I just don't know what todo any more...