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I have been married for a long time. My partner is disabled and can not have sex but could try to pleasure me.in other ways but does not. I am very frustrated as I would feel awful l Fooling around but I have needs and almost 5 yrs without sex is ridiculous.
I'm on the opposite side of this coin. 36f. I have acquired a physical disability which means I use a wheelchair fulltime etc.
My partner 33m rarely is intimate with me. He always complains saying that I must have a very high sex drive.
We are intimate on average once every few months.
Loneliness and frequent rejection have worn away at me. Prior to becoming a fulltime wheelchair user our intimate life was very active.
I just wish the party withdrawing would give an honest explanation for their lack of desire. If you knew why your partner doesn't want you, it would help in deciding next steps.
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Ngl I couldn't remain that long. Shrinking myself into nothingness for the sake of being an old dusty lamp in my 33ms life waiting for the day he either throws me away or tries to see if he still can use me
I'm sorry you're going through it too. 10 years is Toooo long :(