Being in a sexless marriage is an emotional and physical rollercoaster I never expected to ride, especially in my 50s. After over 20 years together, my husband recently admitted what I had been sensing for years—he’s simply no longer interested in sex. It wasn’t a confession that came easily, nor one I took lightly. He’s a good man, a great partner in so many ways, and has assured me he has no desire to be with anyone else. But for me, that’s where things get complicated.

You see, I love sex. Not just a little, not in passing, but a lot—a whole lot. It’s not just about physical intimacy but also the connection, passion, and vitality it brings to my life. For seven years, I’ve tried to work through the absence of that connection. I’ve been faithful, committed to keeping my vows even when my own desires have screamed otherwise. But it’s been hard. Really hard.

After much discussion (and a great deal of therapy), our counselor introduced the concept of ethical non-monogamy. While my husband has no interest in exploring relationships or intimacy outside our marriage, the idea of me stepping out with his blessing has been a revelation. It’s a concept that challenges every traditional notion of marriage I grew up with, but it’s also a possible solution that honors both our truths.

Now, I’m navigating this potential new path cautiously, with care and respect for both of us. I’m attractive, active, and unapologetically in touch with my needs—needs that have been on the back burner far too long. It’s a journey of self-discovery, partnership, and the pursuit of joy. Whether this works for us remains to be seen, but I’m finally ready to explore what’s next.

Oh yeah, did I mention that I like sex a lot, a lot, a lot? Lol. Happy to have found this group and to have found the hot pics and videos here on the app. 🤤🥵