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Privacy in a shared apartment
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Hi! I'm a college student guy that recently moved to a shared apartment, so right now I am living with a roomate and this week I'm going to be living with another girl. The thing is that out of my apartment I have been seeing a girl and we both like each other, so sooner or later I am going to invite to my apartment. My room is literally right next to the new girl's room (the one that will arrive this weekend), and I am concerned about the privacy that I will have with the girl that I have been seeing when the time arrives. I do not really know what I am looking for with this post, I guess that I am asking what will you do in my situation, because I really like this girl that I have been talking about and I don't want to be inhibited, concerned or uncomfortable about not making any noise while having sex. And no, going to her house is not really an option because from what I know her place is not very big and she lives with both her parents nad to little brothers (plus she talked to me a little about her mother and she probably wouldn't even allow me to come in). One thing to stand out is that the new girl is from italy, so she doesn't know no one here, meaning she probably won't go out in the weekends. Another thing to mention is that since I still don't even know this girl I have no confidence with her, and to be real the fact that this is a girl and not a guy makes it even morr e awkard for me. Let me know if you have something ti comment on my situation

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The common thing to do is to have a conversation with your roommate. Explain that you’ll be bringing somebody over and that there is potential for play. Say that you’ll try to be respectful with the noises and to let you know if it gets too loud. Then just be respectful when the time comes. That doesn’t mean no noise, just don’t scream, ya know?

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