Yeah, of course, sorry. So I think a lot of value goes into penetration itself, and I get it so it’s fair. But I think that foreplay is just as important as penetration if not moreso sometimes. It sets the entire mood and can make or break being able to give your partner an orgasm. I’m a huge fan of full-body foreplay, as it builds that physical tension and gives the female body time to properly warm up.

For me, I really love to pay attention to the erogenous zones. Areas of the body that have a dense nerve population in them, with the nerves running to the groin that sexually stimulate when excited. I prefer to do it after starting a full-body massage. It’s relaxing, bonding, you can set good lights and good music, and it gives you access to every erogenous zone (toes, soles of the feet, insides of the thighs, small of the back, hips, fingers, wrists, collarbone, neck, lips and ears. From there, moving to oral and fingers to help her reach an orgasm.