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Help. Me and my Girlfriend are very attracted to each other and at the very start of the relationship have made that clear. Recently, we have gotten very sexually intimate and she has always spoken about how she loved it that way. Earlier, when we were about to do the deed, I randomly asked if she thinks I want her just for sex; She then opened up telling me yes and when I asked when did she start feeling this way, she said it started just recently. I don't know how to approach this situation since I do it with her because we are very intimate with each other and she said she really found it fun and loving and I do too. I still go on dates with her and treat her like how I used to before everything. Do I avoid it completely? I am lost.
This is the point we’re you have a talk. Communication is the foundation for any relationship. Nothing changes without it. Sit down and ask what it is that you do that makes her feel like you want her just for sex. As for specifics so you can adapt to that and do thing differently so she feels valued and appreciated outside of her offering sexual experiences with you
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If you have an insecurity, voice it until it’s squashed. Nothing is better swept under the rug. “Hey b, so I remember you said a while ago that you were feeling like I only wanted you for sex. I know we had that talk and I’ve tried to implement the changes so I can better show you how appreciated and loved you are outside of the bedroom. Have I don’t okay with that so far? Are there any more changes you’d like to see that would make you even better and more appreciated?”