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I’m 20f and bf is 20m. We have been together for going on three years. No matter what I do or anything he never seems excited for sex , i’ve offered most things I think any man would dream of like free use, like literally offered to do anything he wanted for him to just say the word and all I ever get is an idk. I’m not like an ugly girl , i’m a petite girl who is in shape and my body image has not changed at all over the past three years. I do not know what more I can do to get him excited or wanting to have sex more. Sex is always quick and a one and done maybe once a week , i walk around naked and sleep naked to try and get his attention but nothing gives
Hey there, so your needs are totally valid. There are many many things that go into having a libido, and there could be any number of issues going on to affect his, including actual hormonal issues. Go to a pcp and check the hormones via a blood draw, try to straighten out other areas of life. Sex and love is a 2-way street though and it seems you’re doing your part. Try to have talks to get to an understanding of why this may be difficult for him so you can both decide the best way to move forward
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