Hey! My bf and I wanted to try anal this weekend, I read up some tips on what to do and have a few ideas on what went wrong, but a full length answer would be appreciated since both of us are confused.

A few days prior to the main event I had made sure to eat slightly more fibre filled foods. I drank coffee too since it acts like a laxative in certain amounts, I maybe drank too much as my stool became not watery, but not hard either.

I have never tried douching before this, so this was the first time trying, I had a rough idea on how much water to use, the right temperature, etc. Since this was the first time douching I was scared but used breathing to keep calm. I failed the first few times to get anything in, when the water actually did get in, immediate nausea and the water was stuck. Over the course of maybe 5-10 minutes the nausea got worse, my vision went fuzzy and black, my hearing also went fuzzy and was ringing, I was swaying, barely had depth perception (due to the dizziness and lack of vision) cold and hot sweats, even more nausea, the whole shebang. The only other time I have had a reaction similar to this is a piercing. After being able to let the water go, everything slowly went back to normal.

I think it’s a combination of the coffee, too much water and air, but if anyone has had a similar reaction, please tell me what caused it.