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i’m still a virgin and i’ve tried having sex multiple times but it always hurts too bad and i’ll always ask the person to stop before it’s even in. i’ve even had people tell me im too tight and it’s hard for people to finger me at first. is this normal? i’ve also tried relaxing but i feel like maybe im just too tense. please give me some advice
Hey there! So first off I would advocate going to your gyno to ensure you don’t have an anatomical issue you’re facing. It could potentially be vaginsmus, or vaginal cysts or fibroids ect. Sex shouldn’t be painful at all, but make sure they’re giving you proper foreplay before any kind of penetration. And ensure that you use lube.
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Agreed. First time hurting is primarially due to young men not knowing proper foreplay