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Me and my man have been together for a good bit but our sex life has taken a downturn. He wont acknowledge my pregnancy kink. Each time I bring it up in the bedroom he starts going off on we can afford kid right now talk and gets me out of the mood. Also he has stopped initiating with me. I have so much pent up sexual frustration and it is aggravating me. Each time I bring it up about him not initiating he makes excuses like he is sore down there , he is tired from work, stuff I didnt do that day , or my hygiene. Im really sick of this what can I do to get my sex life back?
Hey there. So first off, your emotions are totally valid. As are your needs. That said, I would also be a tad worried if my partner had a huge pregnancy kink and tried to initiate a lot too. Nothing wrong with the kink, at all. But your partner may be misinterpreting your attempts to initiate as attempts to get pregnant. That’s a huge difference. Either way, it takes solid communication to make changes. Sex and love is a 2 way street and it takes effort from both sides to make changes in a relationship. Might help to introduce a sex therapist for both your sakes
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