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Hello my (m31) wife (f30) and I have been with each other since we were teenagers. For the majority of our relationship we had a routine for sex.
However, within the last two years we have started to explore in the bedroom. We have experimented with toys, ropes, roleplay, dirty talking and of course more positions.
Recently during a candid conversation about tunr ons and what we have enjoyed in the past and what we haven't, she mentioned how much the black swan lesbian scene turned her on.
I want her to explore these turn ons, but my male brain doesn't understand/know what to do.
I don't want to push her to hard to fast to explore. Hoping for a female perspective to guide me.
How should I proceed?
Describing the scenario in depth with dirty talk may be a good first step, test the waters and seen where her comfort zone lies. It wouldn’t hurt to have a conversation about in which you’re direct to see how much interest she has in it.
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Having bisexual fantasies is extremely normal, esp when perfectly filmed with perfect shots and lighting like in movies. Be a safe space for her to explore these fantasies.