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So me and my girlfriend have a great sex life, we're both really happy. We are pretty open and talk about kinky things together. The only issue is that she's super anxious to do some of the things we've talked about. She is also a little shy when it comes to telling me things she likes. I don't want her to do anything she doesn't want to do but I want her to be less nervous and more confident in herself. Is there anything that I can say or do to make her feel less anxious about doing kinky stuff?
Hey mate! Kudos on the effort to be a safe space and a supportive partner to your partner. More guys need to be like this. 32m here to a flawless 28f wife. We’re both VERY into kink and incorporate it every time we play in some way or another. This was crafted through many many conversations about what we liked, kinks we think are hot or worth trying, fanrasies ect. Repeatedly building that trust in one another through conversation and then little by little, baby steps, experimenting with it in the bedroom to show each other there’s no judgement, and that we want to please the other. Through time and repetition she will continue to see you as that safe space, just remind her it’s okay, that she can open up at her own pace and that you’re happy to be there for her when she does. It takes time, and that’s how it should be.
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