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Hey yall, something came up recently and the bestie of my gf apparently aked her if she'd want a foursome with her and her bf. She told me a few days ago but this happend about 2 weeks before. My gf turned the offer down, but toh I am kinda mad she did right away without asking me. I am completely fine with her not being comfortable with her besties bf, but from what we have talked about and else, I know she's not against having sex with others. Btw her bestie asked again when I was there too, and l'd love to take this opportunity, but we told her we would think about it. How can I handle this situation, and maybe convince my gf to go for it? advice needed
I actually advocate NOT doing this. I know that’s not what you want to hear, but involving others in a relationship has destroyed countless relationships. I’m in one that enjoyed a few threesomes, but it takes a LOT of communication, mutually, and self-work. The fantasy is far different from the reality, and tbh, if she wasn’t into it and didn’t want it, she had every right to say no without asking you, because you need two votes for a yes. At that, it’s pretty well known in the swinging community that you do NOT fool around with friends. Doing so risks her friendship with her best friend and that’s not worth a finite fantasy that could be held with someone else that wouldn’t endanger a lasting friendship
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