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I (M29) have been with my partner (F27) for about 7 years now, and initially everything was great - the typical young and adventurous and spontaneous ect, however we’ve moved in together about 3 years ago and ever since, the sex life has pretty much dried up. There’s rarely ever initiation from her end and when there is from me, it’s usually just turned down which is disheartening and leads to less attempts from me.
We’ve spoken about it and she assures me that nothing is wrong but I’m just not sure what I can do / if there is anything I can do to spice things up again, any advice would be great because clearly this is not my area of expertise 🤣 😊
Hey man. So it’s a really well known phenomenon that when you’re in a relationship long enough, sex dries up. It just happens. Especially after moving in together. Your body and mind get desensitized to the once exciting stimulus. Being in a LONG term relationship means understanding that this happens and taking frequent steps to get around it. That means having deep talks as communication is the foundation for any relationship and nothing changes without it. Discuss fantasies and kinks, or bring in toys. Whatever steps you both can do to keep trying new things or steps at least to both understand the change and adapt to it
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