My 45m wife 39f have hit a bit of a rough patch lately with both emotional and sexual disconnection. Obviously we’re working on the emotional side and have had recent productive conversations to move forward. We have a great relationship and love each other ridiculously. We’ve always had a healthy, kinky sex life that matters to both of us

So what we came up with is for the next two months we’re not going to have intercourse. In fact, she isn’t going to do anything involving my body. No handjobs, No blowjobs, no penetration.

The idea is to remove the pressure of her pleasing me so we can reconnect her to her pleasure and her body and her sexual needs and desires. She gets all the kissing, touching, fingering, oral sex she wants any time she wants. But that’s as far as it goes.

If I really feel the need to orgasm she likes to watch me masturbate anyway and we’ve agreed that is within the boundaries of this idea.

I’m excited to re-learn her body in a way that also creates patience and focus for me. Since there isn’t anything to get to after I please her, I can just…please her. And hopefully she can just accept the attention and relax and enjoy the moment.

Before anyone says anything, we DO NOT lack for foreplay and I’m one of those guys who genuinely gets pleasure out of fingering and oral on her.

Just wondering if anyone has ever done anything like this before or just thoughts in general

EDIT because I forgot to mention it initially I’m also making use of this time to to try re-learn/re-train how I cum also. When I masturbate it’s usually a quick and dirty affair to get the job done, and I think this has reduced my stamina during penetration. So I’m trying something akin to edging/tantric masturbation to to get my brain and dick used to the idea of prolonged stimulation (neither of us wants a marathon but a little bit longer than what we’ve had lately) before climax