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22F - I've been with my boyfriend going on 3 years now. We just moved in together about 5 months ago. I have a history of SA and issues with sex and it doesn't get to me all the time but when t does it does. Lately, my sexual drive for my boyfriend hasn't been the same. I haven't been wanting to have sex, but I want to have sex. In my head I know I want to do it for me and to make him happy, but I get a trigger and get uncomfortable and it causes a barrier between him and I. He's very understanding, but I also understand that guys want sex in a relationship and that's ok. What do I do? Is there anything I can tell myself or any way to start and finish sex without feeling uncomfortable?
I would highly suggest a sex-therapist, someone to help you work through and process everything properly. Everyone can use some guidance now and then. You shouldn’t just have sex because you feel obligated to, you know?
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