So I’ve been dating this guy for a little over a year, when we have sex it’s absolutely amazing. However, we don’t have sex often, and he only wants me to give him blow jobs without any reciprocation. I serve my “purpose” and fulfill his needs, then he blows me off for his friends. I’ve gone above and beyond to make this man happy. He has even said some extremely awful things to me in the past. One of the more recent things he has said to me is that he apologizes because he cannot be what I need him to be intimately, or sexually. His friends have make comments to him about how he’s “mean” to me. His friends have also said that I’m really good for him. I can’t get him to explain why he feels that he can’t fulfill my needs, when he obviously can and has in the past. Is he doing this for selfish reasons? Please advise me on what I should do, and how I should handle this situation. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.