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I struggled a lot with my ex to fully let loose during sex bc he never made me feel secure etc. I'm looking to get more experience with men soon and I've since gained confidence etc, but a bit worried ab being boring or basic. What are some simple tips that can show I'm having a good time and small things I can initiate as someone who is still a bit more insular and still have a lot of sexual confidence to gain? an example would be like missionary- how do I NOT be a starfish during that? or a deadweight if I was on my front? also I live with someone so I can't just be louder. I'm also pretty submissive so trying to take the full lead is too awkward for me at this stage.
Hey there. So there is an infinite amount of sexual practices to learn. Everybody is different, but kudos for wanting to do more. My tip would be to just express yourself. Work on being vocal and describing what you like or why, don’t be afraid to make sounds. Wrap your arms or legs around them and use your muscle to pull them into you, or be on top and grind with your hips, learn different oral techniques, explore kinks and fetishes ect. You don’t HAVE to be any thing or do anything you don’t want to be or do. But take your time to explore. Figure out what you like and expand on it.
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