For context my girlfriend is a very shy person with a lot of insecurities as am I. I’ve talked to her about some things I would enjoy for her to do and she says she will try but never does. I understand if she doesn’t want to do them that’s fine, but it is very frustrating to be told that she will and then it never happens. I also would prefer if we did sexual things more often not necessarily just sex but other things even. And when I’ve talked to her about that she tells me that she is always horny but just never says anything to me. That also frustrates me because I’ve had issues in the past with thinking she wasn’t attracted to me at all as I was the only one who ever initiated any form of sexual activity. I’ve told her about that as well and she also claims she’ll do more but never does. We’ve been together for 6 years now and I love her but I feel as if I’ll always be sexually unsatisfied if nothing changes.