My partner and I have been together for 2 years and our relationship is strong and healthy. We both enjoy a fulfilling sex life and have made light-hearted comments about the idea of a threesome. I’m curious about exploring this fantasy further, whether with another person of any gender.

I want to approach the topic delicately and respectfully. I’m considering ways to gauge her interest without being direct. For example, watch threesome porn, continue making direct jokes, using a dildo while receiving head and asking if she likes that or even just saying “if only we had a cock for you to suck on” during sex. I’m looking for advice on how to bring up this topic in a way that’s comfortable and non-pressuring for both of us. Would also love to hear stories and more suggestions.