Me (23F) and my partner (22M) have been in a relationship for about a year now, at the start sex was frequent but as time went on he just didn't seem to want to have sex as often as me. We have sex like once a week or every two weeks, and when it does happen he doesn't seem like he's too into it. This has been worse ever since he started to have trouble orgasming due to his new medication. I tried talking to him about this but he says he just doesn't have the same libido as I do and doesn't have this desire. That makes me frustrated because I don't feel wanted nor desired, to give context he also doesn't do romantic gestures such as give me gifts, take me on dates and so on. So I end up feeling overall frustrated. He says he wants to focus on work and has no time to do these little acts of love I ask him for, either. I asked him to make a proper proposal (like really ask me to be his gf with a ring and whatnot) but he also says he has no time rn and he'd rather do it when he wants to. This month I had a crisis situation happen to me and I forgot to take my birth control, so my libido is even higher. Me and him went out with his friend for drinks and i noticed i was kind of flirty with him, as well as later on I started fantasizing about him bc he gave me attention I guess. How can I feel more fulfilled in my relationship and have my desires met without him having to sacrifice himself