Hey there,

I (24yo) have my first relationship with a girl, due to my luck it’s a long distance relationship. We’re trying our best to see each other as often as possible but sometimes it comes that we can’t meet for two months.

It’s also the first (hopefully the one and only) experience to have sex with a woman. Until that my sexual life was only about watching porn or imagination.

Now I am struggling in lasting long enough when it comes to penetration. I have no problem in relaxing while she is giving me a bj. But as soon as I am in here, I feel like I won’t be able to last more than a few times.

We usually stay together for a couple of days and I‘m experiencing that this is getting quite a bit better by time.

Would you say that this is normal due to the fact that I am having my first sexual experience and this in a long distance relationship where it’s difficult to get into regularity?

Thanks for the help!