I’m female, 31, and he is male, 41. We have known each other for a few months, but we recently started spending time together.

He let me know after a couple of times of making me squirt that it wasn’t his favorite thing to do. It’s one way I cum. I can cum in other ways. I explained that in a way I said don’t overstimulate me, and I won’t squirt. He said every time we are together, I will be overstimulated. Like what?

We recently had sex, and I came a bit during sex. It wasn’t much. I said something afterward, and he comforted me, saying, “It’s still not my favorite thing, but it’s okay.” I felt like I withdrew even more.. I can’t understand why he continues to come back if he does not like it. No, I havent asked him. We aren’t dating, and I’m feeling confused.