I love giving oral to my partner, and am always looking to improve my skills and provide variety during our lovemaking. I've only recently discovered the Kivin method, and have been reading a number of descriptions.

Many descriptions talk about the female's leg being on your back, and there are a couple of line drawings showing that I've found. But I can't envision being able to reach her vulva with her leg basically on my shoulder. Yes I can push her leg back and up, but I'm not sure how comfortable either one of us will be. My partner has slender thighs so that's not the issue.

I've seen a video where the giver is over the receiver (not with her leg over him), and that position makes sense and I can see how that will work.

Has anyone seen any videos showing the other position with the woman's leg being over the man? A quick search on a couple of porn sites hasn't returned any results.

Or if anyone has had any actual experience with this position and can describe how it works.

Thanks.