So my husband and I have started with pegging. It’s been great but lately I found out he’s been doing it him self while in the shower. I have lower self confidence so this is already hard for me. I have always been of the mind that if a wife is doing her job, her husband does not need to masturbate. However, if that’s not the issue, I have come home from work to find his toys in the sink or in the shower now this may not sound like a big problem however, we have four children who get home from school before we get home from work, my 14-year-old has found these things more than once and it’s getting really awkward.I’ve tried talking to him about it and he says he’ll be more mindful but this keeps happening. Any ideas on why he may be doing it alone in the shower or how to get him to understand, he can’t just leave these things around for our children find. And for any men reading this, could you help me figure out why if your wife or girlfriend is going all out for you you might need to still masturbate later on.