I don't know what's going on. I (39F) have a male coworker (41M) to whom I'm not physically attracted to, as he's getting grey and going bald, and has a dad bod (yes yes I'm superficial, but that's not the point of this post). For some reason, every time we're together alone in a room at the office, I just get extremely horny out of nowhere - nipples hard, panties wet, blue walls type of aching, all that jazz. It's almost like his mere presence makes me horny, even though he's not even my type!

Is it pheromones? Am I going crazy? He's a foreigner and I have copper IUD that doesn't mess with my hormones, so according to one theory it could be that my body senses that his genes would be beneficial, and therefore tries to trick me having sex with him. What is going on?!

TL;DR: Getting extremely horny just by being around coworker to whom I'm not attracted to.