My 24F and my boyfriend 27M have been together a little over a year now. Things are great sex is great except one thing. He stopped going down on my all together. When we first started dating it would it all of the time without me having to ask, then it because more of a “special occasion” thing. To now I have to ask. The thing is, I don’t want to have to ask. Is there anything I can do to help that? I’m beginning to think that maybe it’s me and not him?

Edit: I do constantly give him head to try and initiate, but it’s almost never reciprocated these days.

Edit# 2:

I decided to talk to him and ask him why he stopped and i wish I hadn’t. Before I continue I should disclose that I recently had a miscarriage, and I have been very depressed, but I have been trying my hardest to keep going and pretend I’m fine. Apparently I just “haven’t been pleasant lately” and it makes him “not in the mood for it.” I am devastated to say the least. Thank you all for the kind comments.