My boyfriend 25f and I have great sex. It starts good at least. His dick is bigger than I’m used to and that’s good but also bad. He takes too long, it gets boring, painful, I get microtears, sometimes my pussy even swells. Of course he stops when I absolutely can’t anymore. But it feels like I’m pushing myself so he cums. And I’m not sure if he is edging on purpose or if it takes him that long. I did talk about it a lot, he notices I’m not engaged at the end. The worst part is when he takes it out but hasn’t come yet. He just sits there masturbates and like gets upset when I’m not interacting but I’m just not horny anymore. I hate it when he masturbates and I have to sit there in his arms and just wait for really long. I have to fake things during that moment. He says things while touching himself like “play with my balls” and i do it but in my head i’m like “finish already” The problem is he has a high libido. Wants to fuck 5x daily minimum. He takes over an hour. I don’t have the time. And usually after sex I’m energetic and full of life. With him I’m just drained. So naturally I can’t have sex as much as he wants to, I’ll just not function. I don’t know what to do about it