So prior to a sexual reawakening I had a few months ago, I would have said the opposite was actually the problem. Before I was having a hard time to not bust a nut in the first few minutes. But last night my partner fell asleep trying to finish me off after a 1 hour long session and I ended up having to do it myself. Felt pretty shitty going to sleep last night.

I have been doing keagles hardcore to raise my stamina in bed. I go down on her a hell of a lot these days including last night to get her good and warmed up before any penetration. I utilize the pull out and clench method to edge myself and last longer when I fell I want to just keep going. Also I have been on a health/fitness kick lately and I just started dieting and ran about 3 miles that day, first real run I have done as an adult btw.

She talked dirty to me all night and made me do all of these things to “deserve” to have her. Made me shave my face, clean the house, give the kids baths, etc before she would let me taste that delicious pussy of hers that night. By the time the kids were asleep, i was getting very tired but didn’t care.

Spent about 20-30 minutes focusing on her alone which I was rock hard for the entire time. Then she suggests 69 with me on top which sounded great, something we have tried only a few times recently. But then she pulls out the lube and I know where she was going with that. I asked her not to play with my ass just bc I wanted to give it a break from the day before but she insisted. That’s where it started to go downhill. We 69 for a good 20 minutes or so with her finger inside me which did feel great don’t get me wrong but I could tell I was going soft in her mouth. A. She was focusing more on herself in the moment which is fine but didn’t help me to stay hard. B. It’s just a lot of stimulation and hard to focus specifically on keeping my erection.

But after that it was a game of trying to get it come back. And we did get it come back, more than once, but each time I did get hard and got to penetrating, she was to the point of overstimulation. She couldn’t take any more clit stimulation apparently and stopping rubbing herself while thrusting, reducing the friction/stimulation I felt. That combined with just how wet she got, I wasn’t getting enough stim to stay hard more than a couple minutes.

So yeah I’m sure a combo of factors at play here. Not sure if I was just overly tired. Exhausted from my run. Maybe I should tone down the keagels so I don’t last quite as long. Avoid anal play entirely or buy a cockring to mitigate the loss of erection. Or maybe I should stop eating her pussy so good or for not as long, but that would be a damn shame. I really don’t want this to start being a regular occurrence. So yeah I guess just venting, but suggestions and advice would be super appreciated! Thanks!