Have been trying to expand my horizons and try something new. I know how it is always a little uncomfortable the first few times and my experiences so far haven’t been bad per say, but they haven’t been mind blowing either. (Yes, each time I used generous amounts of lube) I tried it on myself once and was able to get off to some porn but just barely. My wife has tried it once now and her smaller fingers definitely improved the experience especially bc she could blow me at the same time, but I wasn’t able to cum without switching to PIV near the end. I will give it a few more try’s still bc I want to experience this mind blowing orgasm everyone talks about, but curious what everyone thinks about when it would be time to just throw in the towel. So what do you think?