Hi there, I know this is a common topic - I feel like I’ve read every article under the sun about how to give better head but alas he usually only cums when he’s super horny from being hungover. We love BDSM - so much that we have gone to the hardcore ends of things. He is also the dominant in the bedroom if that has any significance. So far this is what I’ve tried… 1a.. have enthusiasm eye contact! 1b. Start slow but not too slow with lots of lube and/or spit 2. Stroke with one or both hands in the same motion he is exiting and entering my mouth. 3. Gradually build up speed 4. Run my tongue along his frenulum during the sucking motion 5. Use one hand to cup and/or fondle his balls 6. Lots of moaning done by me 7. Eventually try to recreate the same speed in which we would have sex with lube reapplication if needed

After about 20 mins of this, he starts to go soft or wants to switch to PIV!

I think what may be apart of it is my gag reflex small mouth. I am not able to deep throat for long Periods of time. Does any one have any tips for gag reflex training or any other blow job tips in general?

TIA!