My wife and I have been together for 28 years now, and married for 18. Our sex life has declined considerably. We used to have some crazy wild fun nights. Just recently had one about 6 weeks ago when we went out for the night and had a hotel. First date night in 2 years. About 2 years ago, she had and IUD put in to help with the minstrel pains and she got them pretty bad. Something didn't quite work with the IUD. The pains have most certainly subsided which is a great thing and what we both agreed was the reason for going that route. But the issue became that she is constantly bleeding now. Sometimes just very little like a spot on toilet paper. That has affected our sex life. And now, even on days when she is not bleeding at all, there is no interest, from either side. I love her. She is the mother of my children. I do not want a divorce...but I am no longer happy and losing interest by the day. What do I do? What do we do?