My husband was trying to please me by eating me out since I’m on my period and sex isn’t really an option. While going down on me, I tried to move his head and guide him to the sweet spots but he would touch them and then he would loose it. He literally ate me out for probably 20 minutes before I just said I can tell your arm hurts and this isn’t working so I’m good, you’re just not good at that. I said it before I actually realized what I said because I definitely shouldn’t have said it in the tone I did nor negate him for trying to please me but it’s frustrating when it’s like this every time. I have to use toys to actually get a great O. He didn’t say much after that so I’m more than confident I hurt his feelings and didn’t mean to. Has this happened to anyone else or what do you think I should do to smooth this over a bit?