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I've got a bit of an issue that I'm dealing with and I'm wondering if anyone else can relate. I have an insanely high sex drive. I orgasm easily and I am almost always DTF. I think about sex constantly. However, I almost never masturbate. It's just so boring! It's just me alone, with a toy and some porn. It almost always ends up leaving me unsatisfied, even if I have multiple orgasms. It feels so...functional.
To me good sex is a whole sensory experience. When I'm fucking, I'm totally lost in the rhythm of the moment with my partner. Gradually building that energy until it explodes in mind breaking intensity is exhilarating. Masturbation is laborius by comparison. I have to do all the work and afterwards feel just as alone as I did before.
I've tried looking online to see if anyone else had shared how they dealt with a high sex drive while also being apathetic about masturbation. Unfortunately, it's all basically the complete opposite. All I see are articles about people that get plenty of pleasure from masturbating but can't enjoy sex or feel too ashamed to masturbate. I don't know if there is really a solution (except maybe just to fuck more). I guess that I'm just looking for someone to commiserate with.
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