I’m 20M virgin. I was in a relationship in 2020 and it broke off during the pandemic leaving me in an extremely poor mental health state. We never had sex.

It took me about 2 years to recover. During that time I ended up going on two dates neither of which resulted in a relationship or sex obviously.

I want the closeness of a relationship, but I’m also extremely horny.

I notice now that I get more frequent and longer lasting erections. When I masturbate now it takes me a significantly longer time to cum and I feel extremely dissatisfied after I cum.

I bought a sex toy, but I almost feel like it doesn’t even work…

My wrist gets tired before I have my first orgasm. Im so sexually frustrated.

I just feel like it would be a lot easier to just hook up with someone from an app….

I’m not very attractive, but my penis definitely works and I’m not fat. Is this a bad idea?