My partner (F) and I (M) are both straight and in our mid 20s.

We've recently been discussing the possibility of getting into the swinger life. We've heard a lot about different clubs and parties 5hat happen regularly in our city, but we would prefer to start off gently in a more intimate experience at home.

We both like Exhibitionism and playing with another woman. For our first experience, potentially we'd like to have an FFM threesome (fully aware of how typical this probably sounds), or just invite another woman to come over to hang out and watch us play.

We're still just talking and fantasising about it at the moment, so this isn't an r4r, but I would be interested to hear how other couples went on their search to find a third for a threesome.

How did you go about it, and how difficult was it to find interested parties/someone you both clicked with? What advice do you have for us?

Thanks!