I [19F] am still a virgin, however one of my close friends decided to gift me with one of those Lovense Lush 3 sex toys / compact with the long distance option for when, and these were her words “you and your future boyfriend want to try things remote” / along with two travel size containers of water based lube. Ever since I became sexually active /as far as masturbation goes/ my go to was my own fingers.

Now that I have this new sex toy I’m excited to try it out, however, I’ve never had anything more than 3 fingers as far as penetration goes and I’m a bittt nervous on how things will go. How do I know when I’ve used enough lube or too much lube? I’ve already mentally prepared myself for a bit of discomfort but will pain be a indication that I didn’t use enough lube?

I’m not trying to rush things or possibly hurt myself, but I’m also not trying to make my bed into my own personal slip-n-slide from using too much lube .

Any advice ?

UPDATE ; wow, it’s been a while and I completely forgot about this post but to update everyone it went well with the lush. I love it—though I need to now Invest in a actual dildo or something now, lush is nice but not as…filling as I’d hope😂 can now use it without lube, just need to be turned on and it slips right in. Definitely recommend but I haven’t used it in public yet