Hey folks!

I (M25) have been with my partner (F25) for the last 5 year. For the duration of that time, I have been unable to orgasm with her either during PIV or manual/oral stimulation. The one exception to that is getting to the edge and having her finish me off - hardly the ideal. I'm pretty sure it's not death grip - we are long distance and before I visited her most recently I made a point of not touching myself at all or looking at/listening to anything sexually explicit (images, videos, audio porn, erotica, etc) for 3-4 weeks before I saw her. Despite that, I am unable to orgasm to her stimulation, and stimulating myself to orgasm in her presence is much more difficult is much more difficult than stimulating myself alone. I also seem to regress to ~80% hardness after 2-3 minutes of active sex, which probably doesn't help things. Any help is appreciated!