For clarity, I dont actually identify as a "straight guy", I'm bi and non bianary. However, you wouldn't know it from casually knowing me. I'm big, hairy, and fairly dudeish. While I have some amount of gender dysphoric thinking, I'm fairly likened to how I was born, and my attraction to men is much more carnal than otherwise. I'm only able to adore femme presenting people, but that poses an issue: I'm ambivalent to PIV and its difficult to maintain an erection for it, but anal is the most intensely pleasurable thing I've ever experienced. To compensate I've developed killer head/hand game, and I've found a handful of people into pegging, but ultimately I'm never able to form a proper relationship with them because they seem to expect PIV from me. So my question is this; how likely is it to find a femme partner without having to have PIV, and does what I'm experiencing seem pathologic in nature or is it relatively normal sexuality?