I (33 Male) matched with a woman on a sex app - everything's going well and she said she wants me to come over to her hotel. She's smoking hot and I can't believe my luck (to the point where I start to get a little suspicious - I'm a decent looking guy, not Ryan Gosling).

She asked me about the last time I had sex, which was a couple months ago, I ask her the same question, and she says last weekend. She also mentions having met a lot of guys on the app. No problem, we're all sex positive here, right? Then she asks if I'm interested in an MFM with a bi guy, which I haven't done before, but I say sure, with some boundaries (yes to them both going down on me, no to me fucking the guy). I mention using condoms, and she says oh I was hoping you'd cum in me. I tell her no, I'm definitely using condoms. She says ok, but I can tell she's not thrilled about that.

So as you might imagine, she's striking me as kinda sketchy, even for a sex app (Pure). I'm googling rates of herpes transmission from women to men even with condoms. I think the main reason I'm still considering this is that she's incredibly attractive. But maybe I'm letting my paranoia prevent me from living life? I really don't know.

I guess I'm not really asking for should I do it/should I not do it, I don't want to burden anyone here with making up my mind for me, but is there anything else I should be considering when deciding whether to go through with this or not? We're planning on meeting up tomorrow night (Tuesday). Thanks!