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So I(23F) have watched both femdom and maledom porn and got turned on by both. But when I watch maledom porn (talking about really rough, degrading stuff, not just a guy being dominating) I feel guilty later. I think of how so many women have been oppressed for centuries, how women continue to get r*ped, trafficked etc., and......this might sound stupid, but it makes me feel like a traitor to my sex. However when I watch femdom stuff, I feel a sense of schadenfreude. I kind of get turned on thinking that I am subverting the norm, that I am kind of getting revenge on men or something (note: I don't hate men, nor have I ever been hurt by them, I just feel kind of jealous of them for being the dominant sex for most of history. And I know there are men who have been r*ped, trafficked etc. as well, but there have been less of them. ) Is this weird?
Though I don't think there is anything wrong being turned on by either of these, I do think it is such a shame that we have reached a point in society where politics has not only pitted the sexes against each other, viewing history as an oppressor/opressed dichotomy, but also meaning that this miserable politics has seeped into our very subconscious at the level of what porn we enjoy.
Do you get a double feeling of schadenfreude when it's a black woman dominating a white man?
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