I really have appreciated the feedback ive gotten from you all. For the most part youve all been very non-judgmental and helpful. I made a post awhile back about my wife wanting to try a same room swap. If you want to read it....https://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/comments/kr3juc/33m_potential_newbie_husband_looking_for/

Ive been reading and talking and thinking a ton. Ive talked to the other guy potentially involved to get his thoughts and then last night my wife hinted/joked about it again. I asked her if being shared/sharing is something she honestly wants to try. She told me shes so happy with me/us and our sex life. She said however that we have tons of years ahead of us as a couple and wants us to have fun. I asked what that meant to her and she said..."everything...toys, places, positions, and yes....threesomes and foursomes." I told her i appreciated her honesty and i want us to have fun as well. I was glad i was able to get a straight answer. I asked her how she felt about me sharing nudes of her with thee potential guy in this swap and she said shed love that. I actually did proceed with that and to my surprise i felt pretty good about it.

I guess all this to say i feel like im getting more and more comfortable with the idea of this and just wanted to thank everyone and to get any more thoughts and feedback or suggestions you may have about it or to help me with my fears/potential jealousy. Cheers!