Male poster here

So growing up I always heard about how guys would use hand lotion or lube when they decided to go to town on themselves. I also for the longest time didn't even know where you'd go to buy lube and would just use my hand and nothing else. A few years ago I decided to finally try it out for myself to see why it was considered better. And after getting in the mood and putting some on my hand before touching myself I felt it. That on the edge feeling where if you keep going you know you'll make yourself cum.

I thought it was sort of just the excitement of a new thing so I came very fast. I normally prefer when I masturbate to take me time and extend it for a long period of time before cumming. I've tried it lots of other times and every time lube touches my dick I swear it sends me over the edge.

I've had a few instances when I was with someone else and they used lube when using their hands on me and it felt different. I know being touched by someone else can be a completely different experience but still. When someone else does it I do not get the same sensation. I don't feel ready to cum instantly and it takes a good amount of time to get there.

I've experimented on my own again even after seeing how with other people I can last longer. It still sends me almost straight to orgasm. This makes masturbating with lube seem almost like a chore because there is suddenly a whole lot of extra clean up for a not very satisfying experience.

Does this happen to anyone else? Can someone explain what is happening? Is there anyway to work on making this not happen? Thank you for all your help those who answer I'm still a bit confused by all of this.