My girlfriend had originally told me that she had never had an orgasm during sex with any of her ex's which wasn't very surprising knowing most women don't cum from PIV sex. However she recently confessed to me that she's never had an orgasm period. She says she's never really been interested in masturbation and even when she has tried it's just been uncomfortable or unenjoyable.

I'm not really sure where to go from here with our sex life. I'm used to evaluating the quality of my sex life with a partner on our ability to orgasm. I really enjoy learning what makes my partner tick. However me and my girlfriend have explored a lot and even though she claims to have gotten close a few times, she's still not had an orgasm.

Our sex sessions already last upwards of hours with a lot of fingering, oral, massaging, dirty talk, sex toys and PIV but she still hasn't gotten there. I'm wondering if she needs toys like vibrators or maybe my penis, fingers, tongue, etc just aren't enough for her? We're in our early twenties for the record.