So recently I was out drinking with my poly bf and his friend. We had previously discussed that night the possibility of either a threesome or me and his friend having sex. Previous to this, my bf was not too keen on me having a threesome with another guy, but he said it was ok this time as he was very comfortable with his friend. Not too keen to the point of us having full blown arguments about this, so I was shocked to say the least but looking forward to it.

I was excited and having a good time and remembered the night up until me and his friend ordered a last round of shots at the bar. I don't remember leaving the bar or getting to our Airbnb.

My bf said that as soon as we got in, me and his friend passed out on the couch. According to him, he then moved his friend back to his room got him ready for bed, and he passed out.

The next thing I do remember is either becoming conscious when we were having sex in the bed, OR that could be where my memory finally picks up. I remember because I felt super sick and started puking into a garbage can then fell back asleep with all my makeup on, teeth not even brushed or anything.

Thinking about this makes me kind of uncomfortable and I keep coming back to it. Like any good boyfriend should at least have made sure I took all my makeup off and brushed my teeth and got all cleaned up for bed, just like he did with his friend. I have this weird feeling in the back of my head that he purposely placed his friend back in the room and went and had sex with me to feel like he conquered me for the night. Idk. I need some unbiased opinions.

We are in a new relationship and never had sex when I was this drunk ever. Not to the point of literally passing out for a bit and not remembering many hours of the night. Thanks

Edit: I found out some more information the other day. I recently was late on my birth control so I had to ask for more details surrounding what happened that night. He apparently had sex with me, without a condom three times that night & wasn't careful either...