My FWB and I are meeting up Friday night.

We've got a whole "I'm in charge, you're getting pinned to the wall the moment I arrive, I'll be rough etc" thing going. Not really BDSM level, but not vanilla.

I want to send her a video tomorrow afternoon with some instructions, but I'm not sure how to phrase them. I want them to sound not like a question, but not like an order either.

• she can drink a bit too much, and it's the first day of three weeks off for her. She's promised to behave, I wish to reinforce/remind her of this.
• she's super horny at the moment, but I don't want her playing with herself after midnight Thursday night.
• I want her to have whatever toys (vib, whip, plug, cuffs) that she is prepared to use, out ready so I know what she's up for.

So I'm looking for suggestions and feedback. This is what I have come up with:

So, for tomorrow night the first thing is a reminder of your offer not drink too much. A few before I arrive is OK, but I want us both to remember our night.

I also have some instructions for you. The first one is that you're not allowed to play with yourself after midnight tonight. I want you to be as wound up as much as possible.

And the other instruction I have for you is, to have any toys etc you are happy to use tonight, out ready for me.

Edit: I'm now thinking I might drop the drinking part from the video, and just message her when she finishes work saying 'happy holidays, don't drink too hard, I need you in top form for tonight'