Hello!

I am a newish relationship (nearly a year) and I need some help.

As a little background, before this relationship, I was with the same partner for 16 years and let's just say the sex was so vanilla, it made vanilla look spicy.

My new girlfriend (shes 28, I'm 34) is way more kinky! She's introduced me to light choking/ slapping, spanking, rough sex, and she loves to feel owned. We've discovered together that she may also like degradation as if I make her do things she isn't entirely comfortable with, it really turns her on (dangerous line, but we have safe words).

I am not the most sexually experienced. I want to further explore things with her and she always asks me if I want to try more things, which I have a hard time coming up with anything new because this is all so new to me, already!

What is some advice you might have? Any ideas for light bdsm or light degrading?

Tldr: new relationship more kinky than the last. Need ideas for light bdsm and light degradation.