For the longest time, women have owned the narrative over what society deems as sexy and seductive. Regardless of body type, many of the tropes regarding seduction involve wearing lingerie, forgoing certain kinds of clothing, sitting on your partner in a sexy manner (like for a lap dance) or making poses that are typically seen as “feminine” (flaunting any assets like hip, clevage, booty, etc).

LGBTQ culture is challenging that a bit and letting guys do things that once were thought of as feminine & sexy, but I know a lot of straight women don’t find that appealing, like a man in a thong, for example. In heterosexual culture, when it comes to men, shy of being shirtless when you happen to be fit and doing chores or things that alleviate stress (Look at how awesome I am at doing the dishes, yay), what things does your man do that are truly sexy and gets you in the mood?